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The triumph over both positive and negative emotions.
The triumph over both positive and negative emotions.

One of my favorite blogs is idcheaters.com. Lively conversations erupt on relationship issues with an enthusiasm rarely found anywhere else.  The input also gets my wicked little wheels turning. One of the recent topics surrounds jealousy, of course, and the associated behaviors it inspires.

For all of the love professed in relationships, and all the expectations set forth for us by society and religion, people rarely analyze why jealousy is such a huge feature of our psyche.  Is it learned, or is it instinct?

Have you ever seen Mutiny on the Bounty, the version with Marlon Brando playing the part of Mr. Christian?

The Bounty drops anchor in the harbor of a Polynesian, I assume, island where the natives see sex as a great way to say hello.  If there was ever a Garden of Eden, these natives never left it.  The people are portrayed as happy, loving, and bereft of jealousies.  Sex is the extended handshake.

Yes, it is a movie, but it also reflects what some people believe is nature’s true intent.  Genetic diversity, accomplished through sex and childbearing with different partners, is good for the species.  Doesn’t jealousy work against that mandate?

As children we must learn to share because nature drives us to cling to adults for attention.  Otherwise, we may never be fed or clothed.  It is instinct, appropriate during a time of great dependency on adults, but we eventually learn that cooperation and sharing furthers not only personal causes and goals, but also improves our relationships with others in our tribe or family.  Based on this, jealousy must be a sign of immaturity, on one level, or the expression of the powerless and dependent at another level.

Readings Surrounding Jealousy

Where Tarot readings ferret out what has yet to happen, I prefer using Numerology for individuals questioning their own motives behind their jealousies.  We are often unable to completely remove our tendencies in this area, but knowing where they are in our personal birth numbers helps us weather those storms without destroying relationships that are otherwise fulfilling and productive.  Finding areas of “numerical balance” when jealousy might rear its ugly head, has been one of my personal tools for quite some time now.

If you are struggling with jealousy issues, consider taking a look at your partner’s birth numbers as well.  His or her birth numbers may reveal the traits that trigger conflicts with the jealousy you are experiencing.

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Well true to form things have quieted down as Britney has turned her attention to rebuilding the ideal life that she thinks she needs.

Rumors have flown about her trying to get pregnant again and Dr. Phil has been humiliated by his lack of judgment in his haste to fulfill his own desires, at the behest of the Spears family. Things have quieted down. Perhaps the press has finally realized they are as much part of the problem as Britney’s fragile state of mind.

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Her personality number is 7.

She has probably always felt a bit different from others and has enjoyed the fame she garnered when younger. Once grown, her need to still be different has been her achilles heal and it is unfortunate that the courts saw fit to insist on her marching in lock step with what passes for a good mother. If she had been able to get through this bad spell without legal interventions, she may have proved to be a wonderful parent. Again, the pressure to conform is simply too much.

It is important to remember that there are those around you who are struggling with the same life path issues, and the same manipulations by those who claim to have their best interests at heart…which is probably a mask to hide their need to control others.

I have a suggestion for those who are interested in seeing the proclivities in others or, more importantly, themselves.

Write your birth name – first, middle, and last, and add up the values for the letters:

Pythagorean Numerology

Then add up the letters of your birth month along with the day and year. These are the numerical values that express some of your deep seated tendencies.  The values attributed to the numbers can be use in naming everything from children to businesses, depending on one’s goals.  Oddly enough, there is a great deal of accuracy present in the interpretation or analysis of a number’s “influence”.

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If you remember, we talked about her Life Path number and how that is working for her, or not. Then we took a peek at her Birthday number, and what that can mean to her…and those who would own and use her.

Let’s look at her Expression. This number give insights into talents and abilities, or those things that are not nearly as hidden as the numbers at the Life Path and Birthday positions. This reflects her basic nature, which can explain her reactions to pressure, joy, and life changing events. Her Expression number is 9.

Britney needs a cause to feel effective and whole. Many people with the number 9 in this position are humanitarians and philanthropists. They look for the place where they can make a difference, to make someone else’s life easier or better. Could you imagine having this inside of your personality and having that ignored in favor of making money for others who don’t appear to have a need outside of a brand new car? It is this aspect of her nature that probably led her to work so hard at for her mom, or to make the family’s life better, where many children would simply refuse to cooperate with the pressure to perform at an elite level. It is her having given so much of herself that has probably led to her being at such loose ends now.

Now, I can hear the disapproval rising now….”what about her kids? They need her….”. Her children have another parent and are being used to make her conform. Bad combination as that makes them someone else’s cause, not hers alone. If she had been a single parent, things might have been different, and better. They would have become her cause as they would have only had her to depend on. Them there is the pressure to conform, which is incompatible with the need to give. You can not freely give that which is being taken or demanded. There has been nothing in her recent struggles with her children that has really allowed giving. The more that is taken, the less likely anything will be given.

Britney might fare better with less supervision, but that is no longer in the cards. To retain any sense of sanity she will have to remove herself from scrutiny. She will simply have to stop being available. This could be a dangerous time with one more push being the last straw. Remember the suicide watch? A passport and a new beginning is probably a wiser choice.

Britney’s Heart’s Desire is 11/2

Have you ever heard of Maslow’s Hierarchy of needs?

Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs

Britney has a “Master Number”, 11. Many born with this Master Number are born into extremely troubled families. It reflects extreme sensitivity to spiritual matters like, loving relationships. Sensitivity is not mastery of the concept but is a sign that this will be the main goal throughout life.

Britney marries the high school friend in Las Vegas, and mother had that annulled. Britney married Kfed, because she was old enough that no one could build a case to dissolve the marriage. She has tried to create a loving atmosphere for herself, only to have it disintegrate after bringing children into the world. She is crushed. We are probably witnessing her attempts to dull the pain and loneliness, not party time. She was at the top of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs when Kfed, the press, and the courts started dragging her back to lower levels of the hierarchy. She cannot conform to the demands at that level, which causes more pain, which leads to her trying to kill that pain. It is like being able to see brilliant colors all of your life and then being told you are going to be blinded because everyone thinks it would be in your best interest. It isn’t going to work. There is no therapy that will make it work and preserve her sanity, unless frontal lobotomies are an option.

I am going to stop here for today. Why? Because I want everyone to have time to think about all of this before I the last entry. I don’t mean sitting around wallowing in disapproval and cracking “cosmic Britney” jokes. Britney and others like her, deserve better than that. Really think about what it would take to give up your true nature over and over again, and what the result would be. If you reach the thought,” well I would do that for my children” then you might re-evaluate your ability to empathize.

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In the broadest sense, Britney’s road was probably derailed by fame and the demands that led to it.

The younger we are, the more devastating rigid management is to our psyches. Even though she has the ultimate freedom to lead her life as she chooses, she hasn’t been allowed to recognize her internal power and control. This has left her open to manipulation by those who mean her less than well. Her exploration of her personal energy and outlook has been denied her.

Her Life Path is 6

She actually has a great capacity for compassion, which might be her Achilles heel. It’s difficult for her to understand where she ends and everyone else begins because she began her path in service to others, through her talent, as hard cash profit and not as simply a worthwhile human. Her lifelong challenge, based on her Life Path, is to be truly helpful to others. Learning that actions must also preserve her own well being first with an eye toward preserving her positive energies for those who truly deserve her kindness will take time to develop. The balance between help and interference has to be sorted out for herself, before she can strike that balance with others.

Britney’s natural balance has been lost, but only temporarily. She is young and there is time for her balance to develop.


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Her Birthday is 2

She began as a sensitive, intuitive person and will rediscover her skills and gifts in this area, with time. She is so easily influenced by her environment, though, that she needs a trusted adviser who refrains from controlling her, but has heart to heart talks about her well-being and her personal goals. No Dr. Phils, not substance abuse counselors, who all have goals beyond that of helping her be her truest self. It is the presence of those types that has led to depression as they encourage her disapproval of her true nature. Alternatives must be presented within an atmosphere of acceptance for the choices Britney makes. This has yet to happen and we are seeing the results.

I haven’t looked at her Expression and Heart’s Desire areas yet. I have to do this in small chunks!

Seeing the effects of restricted living is always interesting. As soon as the child reaches their majority, things start falling apart, regardless of what the restrictions are. Too harsh is too harsh and tolerance reaches horribly noticeable limit.

Stay tuned, Britney Spears watchers. Those next two installments are on their way!


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Once again the wheel of the year turns and many of my favorite clients have already received their “special days” report from me, with the “do not open until the stroke of midnight” admonishment. I don’t set that warning for all of them, but there are a few I have known for years and it has become a challenge for them, an doodles of playfully sadistic pleasure for me.

What’s a “special days” report?

It is a Numerology report that reveals the energies or tendencies that will influence each day of the year. Normally, couples that I have known will ask for them at the end of each year. Some enjoy looking at each day for inspiration, some use it as a way to avoid pitfalls. Each person has their own reasons for having me whip one up…well it’s not quite that simple….and each person can refer to the report at will.

In relationships, and life is a series of relationships, it is helpful to have a bit of forewarning to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary strife. We all know how a thoughtless moment can haunt us for weeks and the Numerology report, or forecast, can keep us mindful. Being able to take a mental or emotional step back from a difficult moment can mean the world in an already stressful and thoughtless world.

The Numerology report for the next year is a great tool for negotiating the days and nights that make life meaningful. Whether a gift for new parents, graduates, or the newly married, it is one of the most common requests made during this time of year.

Point of interest:

Birth name: Britney Jean Spears
Short name: Britney Spears
Birth date: December 2, 1981

Her Life Path is 6
Her Expression is 12/3
Her Heart’s Desire is 17/8

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Why Numerology?

Divination tools each have their own charm, which is doubly true of Numerology. It is one of my favorite forms of divination.

The categories are flexible, containing anywhere from one to over 20 traits, or more when you add lucky days and progressions, to be weighed against a particular situation or a general trend in the client’s life. Numerology Charts make great gifts for special events. They are also not to be taken lightly. The deeper the analysis, the more information there is to grapple. Time should be set aside to actually go through the results of a chart so that everything is understood. Of course, part of the joy for the reader is going through the details and participating in this act of discovery.

What type of chart?
There are times when it is best to keep things very simple. If this is true for you, then consider only having your life path analyzed. It describes the basics of personality which indicate the general directions that might be chosen, and it’s always a “might” because the future is not set in stone. General trends will be changed by those who are not part of the reading or the analysis. Your lucky days can be included, or a month’s progressive days can be included to aid your negotiating a difficult patch you are going through on an emotional or financial level.

Compatibility charts are excellent for romantic interests as well as business partnerships. The chart can alert you to difficulties ahead of time, so that you can choose a more affective response, instead of reacting and making things worse. These can be used to schedule events for the optimum ease or benefit for those involved. Some people have used my charts to plan trips. The peace of mind it affords them makes the process even more interesting for me, even though Numerology already interests me a great deal.

The best way to have a chart drawn up?
E-mail is the best way to have your chart sent to you, since the categories and interpretations can be quite lengthy. Read through your chart on your own, then take a break from it for a while. Take another look when you feel ready, then call with your questions. The beauty of the chart is that you have the information where you can easily take look any time you feel the need. I have created charts with lovely covers that can sit at the beside or on the shelf with other reference material, always ready for another look or to be a tool for meditation.

The possibilities limited only by your willingness to contemplate your impulses and your desires.

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